I know ‘tis the season to be jolly. But the general consensus among patients I’ve seen is that it’s also the season to feel stressed.
Tax hikes and the continuous cost of living crisis are just some of the reasons cited for the rise in cortisol levels. The same goes for the recent global political changes and the ongoing international conflicts in war-torn countries.
By all accounts, the modern world can seem like a dark place right now — and it’s not just because the clocks have gone back.
Everything is relative in life
As an Osteopath and Autogenic Training practitioner, I’ve written in depth about how stress can manifest in the mind and body. I’ve also highlighted the varied and long-lasting negative impacts chronic stress can have on our overall health.
That’s why, in stressful times, I find myself coming back to the idiom: ‘everything is relative in life’.
This expression can be viewed in many ways. But I take it to mean that the way you see the world changes when you change your perspective. And I believe this thought process can help lessen anxieties resulting from situations that may overwhelm us with stress.
The bird on the branch
This train of thought is seen in the fable of the ‘Bird on the Branch’.
In this story, a tired bird was resting on a branch, enjoying its view and the safety it offered. But shortly after, a strong wind started to blow with such intensity it seemed like the branch would break.
The bird chose not to worry though, as it knew two important truths. One was that even without the branch, it was able to fly and remain safe by the power of its own two wings. The second was that even if the branch were to break, there are many other branches where the bird can temporarily rest.
Man’s Search for Meaning
Another story that hones in on the topic of perspective is Viktor E. Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning. The highly-respected psychiatrist was imprisoned in Auschwitz-Birkenau in 1944 and, against all odds, survived the Nazi concentration camp to document his experience.
One particular part of the book that is etched into my memory, was when Frankl witnessed the death of a young woman.
Moments before meeting her fate, the woman chose to focus her attention on what she could see outside — which was one branch of a chestnut tree which had two blossoms growing from it.
Control the controllables
Of course, Frankl’s retelling of the Holocaust and the Bird on a Branch are two very different stress-inducing situations. The same can be said for a social media post I came across which highlighted that by the time someone born in 1900 reaches 75, they would have lived through an endless list of global crises, from World War I and the Spanish Flu epidemic to the Great Depression and the Holocaust.
But I think each account comes to the same conclusion — that being that sometimes, the only thing you have control over is perspective.
Finding solace from stress
Now for the good news. Once you change your perspective, there are many different ways to cope with stress.
Some might find solace in meditation. Others, like me, might find comfort in the great outdoors.
While the rest might enjoy some aerobic exercise, which, as this 2021 study shows, has been proven to lower cortisol levels.
Whatever coping mechanism works for you — use it, because while you might not be able to change the stressful situations happening in your everyday life or on the global stage, you can change how you choose to cope with it.
As Frankl quite aptly puts it: “What is to give light must endure burning.” So this season and beyond, remember to look for the positives — because they are out there!
Osteopath Robin Kiashek is registered with both the The General Osteopathic Council and The British Naturopathic Association, and is committed to helping his patients achieve physical and emotional wellbeing. For more information about how Robin can help with stress, or to book a consultation, please click here.